Motherhood is a journey unlike any other — full of wonder, challenges, love, and transformation. In recent years, this experience has taken on new dimensions, not just because of books or passed-down wisdom, but through the power of connection with mothers around the world, some you may never meet in person. These women, sharing their honest stories online, offer comfort and companionship in moments when isolation might otherwise take hold.
For many mothers, whether new or seasoned, this digital sisterhood is a remarkable community of support. It’s made possible by heartfelt storytellers like Sanduni Piyarathna, whose online presence goes beyond simple content creation. Through her videos, Sanduni invites us into the tender, chaotic, and deeply beautiful reality of motherhood — a reality many recognize but few articulate as openly.
She is a mother, a creator, and a storyteller, sharing her life’s moments with warmth and honesty. Through TikTok, her platform becomes more than just a collection of videos; it is a space where the joys and struggles of parenting are embraced and celebrated.
A journey that started with a phone in one hand and a baby in the other
Sanduni’s journey as a creator began with the simplest of beginnings — a phone in one hand, a baby in the other, and a desire to connect. She recalls those early days with a gentle smile, explaining how motherhood can sometimes feel overwhelmingly isolating. “I started sharing little moments from my day, mostly to connect with other moms whom I thought might be going through the same ups and downs,” she says softly.
Those small, shared moments grew into something much larger — a community where mothers could find reassurance and encouragement. For Sanduni, this space became a lifeline, a place to express herself and create a supportive network that inspires her daily. This blossoming online community wasn’t just about sharing memories; it was about forming bonds — connecting with women who understood the beauty and messiness of motherhood in equal measure.
Celebrating the Realness of Motherhood
What makes Sanduni’s storytelling so compelling is her commitment to authenticity. She is determined to share not just the picture-perfect moments, but the raw, unfiltered reality. “Motherhood is full of magic, but it’s also full of surprises,” she explains, “and I felt like the world needed to see both.”
Rather than waiting for perfect moments, Sanduni embraces the chaos — the late-night cuddles, the exhausting tantrums, the hurried ‘get ready with me’ scenes where she’s simply trying to feel like herself again. Her videos send a powerful message to mothers everywhere: it’s okay to be imperfect.
“Motherhood doesn’t mean forgetting who you are,” she says. “You’re still you — the woman who used to love dressing up, who had dreams, who wanted to feel beautiful. That woman didn’t disappear when you became a mom; she just needs a little love and a reminder that she still matters.”
Raising Children in a Digital World: Navigating Balance and Safety
As her children grow up in a world shaped by smartphones and social media, Sanduni faces a new and ongoing challenge: how to nurture their development while guiding them safely through the digital landscape. “It’s something I think about every single day,” she admits. “We can’t avoid technology — they’re growing up in it — but we can teach them how to navigate it safely, with confidence and care.”
For her, this means more than just limiting screen time. It’s about being intentional with how technology fits into family life. Sanduni leads by example — carefully considering what she shares online, keeping open and honest conversations with her children, and setting boundaries that respect their growth and safety. Her hope is to raise children who are not only comfortable with technology but also emotionally aware, empathetic, and respectful — qualities that will guide them far beyond the screen.
She also fondly reflects on the content her children may grow up with — and maybe even create themselves one day — she expresses a heartfelt wish. “I hope they grow up seeing content that reflects kindness, creativity, and truth,” she shares. “I want them to feel inspired to be themselves. And if they ever decide to create content, I hope it’s from a place of passion, not comparison. I’d love for them to feel proud of who they are whatever they do.”
In a world of endless content, Sanduni wants her children to find their own voice and be proud of the stories they may one day share.
Family Pairing: Holding Hands in the Digital Playground
A key part of Sanduni’s approach to parenting in the digital age will be TikTok’s Family Pairing feature, which she describes as an invaluable tool for fostering safe and positive online experiences. While her kids are still young, she believes in the future ready to welcome them safely when they are teens. “Family Pairing is the kind of feature that lets you stay involved in your child’s TikTok experience in a way that feels collaborative and, most of all, safe,”
To her, it’s like holding a kid’s hand as they step into a vast and exciting new playground for the very first time. Family Pairing allows her to set healthy boundaries, understand her children’s interests, and have ongoing conversations about what they encounter online. “We’re not just protecting them,” Sanduni says, “we’re guiding them — and that makes all the difference.”
This feature provides her with peace of mind and creates a shared journey, where both parent and teen explore the digital world with trust, awareness, and care. From screen time limits to content filters and Restricted Mode, it’s a thoughtful way to set gentle guardrails. What makes it even more promising is knowing that when the time comes, her kids will also have access to curated spaces like the STEM feed — where science, technology, engineering, and math come to life in a way that’s engaging and age-appropriate. It’s a small glimpse into how screen time can one day become not just safe, but meaningfully inspiring.
A Community Built on Connection and Care
Sanduni’s story is a testament to how motherhood today is deeply enriched by connection — not only in the physical world but also in the virtual spaces we inhabit. Through TikTok, mothers discover much more than entertainment; they find friendship, empathy, and a powerful sense of belonging. The platform becomes a canvas where vulnerability is met with understanding and where shared stories bring healing and joy – all this, without the worry about a dangerous digital world the kids may inherit one day, thanks to supportive initiatives by platforms like TikTok.
For Sanduni, TikTok is not just a stage to perform on — it’s a space where she can be authentically herself and help others feel truly seen and valued. Now, with thoughtful tools like Family Pairing and STEM feed, it’s a place where parents and children can walk forward together — hand in hand — building a future where technology strengthens relationships and nurtures growth.
